Trusted information about Brit Milah, circumcision, and how to choose the right mohel for your family.
Brit Milah (ברית מילה), literally "covenant of circumcision," is one of the most ancient and central commandments in Judaism. Performed on the eighth day of a Jewish male's life, it represents the covenant between God and the Jewish people first established with Abraham. The ceremony has been practiced continuously for thousands of years and is observed across virtually all Jewish denominations — Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, and Reconstructionist.
The bris, as it is colloquially known, is more than a medical procedure. It is a deeply meaningful religious ceremony attended by family and community, marked by blessings, prayers, the naming of the child, and celebration. Many families also honor the occasion by dedicating the event to the memory of a loved one.
A mohel (מוהל) is a person trained in both the religious laws and the surgical technique of ritual circumcision. There are two main categories of mohels in the United States:
Choosing the right mohel is a deeply personal decision. Families consider factors such as religious affiliation, geographic availability, bedside manner, experience, and whether they prefer a medically trained or traditional mohel.
Brit Milah is traditionally performed on the eighth day of the baby's life, even if that day falls on Shabbat or a Jewish holiday — with the exception of Yom Kippur. The count begins from the day of birth, so if a boy is born on Sunday, the bris is on the following Sunday.
The ceremony may be delayed for medical reasons (such as jaundice or illness), and in such cases it is not performed until the baby is fully healthy. A delayed bris is not performed on Shabbat or most holidays.
The ceremony typically begins with the baby being carried into the room by the kvatter (godmother) and passed to the kvater (godfather), who then brings the child to the sandak — the honored person (often a grandfather or rabbi) who holds the baby during the procedure. A special chair called the Chair of Elijah (Kisei Shel Eliyahu) is designated for the prophet Elijah, who is said to attend every bris.
The mohel recites blessings, performs the circumcision, and the father recites a blessing affirming his participation in the covenant. The baby is formally given his Hebrew name at this point. The celebration (seudah) follows, often including food, wine, and Torah discussion.
Here are key factors to consider when selecting a mohel:
Your mohel will provide specific aftercare instructions. In general, keep the area clean and apply petroleum jelly with each diaper change to prevent the diaper from sticking to the wound. The healing process typically takes 7–10 days. Contact your mohel or pediatrician immediately if you notice excessive bleeding, signs of infection (redness, swelling, discharge), or if the baby is not urinating normally within the first 12 hours after the procedure.